I've been tagged

I've been tagged by losingsanity

Each player starts with 7 random facts/habits about themselves. People who are tagged need to write on their own blog about their seven things, as well as these rules. At the end of your blog, you need to choose 7 people to get tagged and list their names. Don’t forget to leave them a comment telling them that they have been tagged and to read your blog!

This is quite harder than i thought it would be.

1) I'm a perfectionist (just ask my husband seems i drive him nuts with this)

2) I have a hard time saying 'NO" to people who ask me for help, money, rides, babysitting.........

3) I can speak three languages fluently (English, French and Polish)

4) I was born in Poland and came to Canada when i was 5 years old (therefore making me more of a Canadian that anything else)

5) I never leave the house without makeup on.

6) I have three older sisters and younger brother.

7) I'm a shopoholic ( but i never use credit) especially for kids clothes...my daughter and sons have more clothes than anyone else i know

I hope this got you to see another side to me....:)...a good one i hope....I don't have 7 people to tag so i'll just have to leave it at this....

I have a question

I have a question. I have two sons, and a 3 year old daughter...so why is it that i'm still not sure if i should have more children or not. I can't seem to tell my husband that we are not having anymore kids. He's content with the kids we have ...but i can't seem to make up my mind. Am i the only one who struggles with this?...I know that i'm luckier already than most to be blessed with three healthy wonderful children....but my heart aches for one more. What if i have one more...will i still want "one more" after that? when will this feeling stop? I wish i could just send my husband for his vasectomy and be over baby making..but everytime he mentions it i say sure make an appointment...and then tell him wait ...i'm not sure ....Seeing babies usually makes me want one even more....but then when i have a hard time with one of the kids i say 'ENOUGH"....Mixed feelings is what i call it. I just wish i felt certain about my decisions.....i guess i have to wait a little longer before i make my final decision....(not too long..since i'm not getting any younger lol) Does anyone else struggle with this?

glorious day outside

What a glorious day it is outside today...I'm going to get my daughter dressed in a bit (I' know....bad mom..child not dressed yet and it's 1:30pm....but i was busy cleaning the house folks and since we weren't going anywhere i didn't think it was a problem ) and get ourselves out there to enjoy the sunshine. I love days like today....They make you feel full hope and promise....as if you could conquer anything (good time to start my diet heh!)....so off we go......to get some fresh air.

Playgroup

I take my daughter to a playgroup once a week. It's a nice way for us to spend the day and lets me interact with other moms. I didn't realize how isolated i was going to be once i had my daughter, since all my friends my age had their children at the same time i had my boys (we're talking 9 and 11 years ago before she was born) . By the time my daughter Emma came around everyone was out of baby mode. This playgroup has been great, and i've made lots of friends with kids her own age. Now we get together socially on weekends with our husbands. Weather wise things have improved, the sun came out and it got a little warmer which is great. Let's hope the weekend is as beautiful and warmer. We need a break here!

reading other's posts

I've been reading other peoples posts and i have to admit that i have been truly moved.
Some of you have had to battle infertility, others death, some adoptions , some just the daily struggles of everyday life. It all makes me a little more grateful for what i have, how lucky and fortunate i have been in life (even through my divorce). So for all of you, who's blogs i have or have yet to come across, know that i have been touched by your stories. I'm going to go and hugs my kids now :)

what's with the weather?

Does anyone know what's going on with the weather?...I'm in Quebec, and just as we all thought spring was here, we got hit with another snow storm. Geez! what's up with that? I bought my daughter so many cute outfits for this summer that i guess i'm getting a little impatient for her to wear them. And she'll be sooo cute in them . After having had two boys, and then getting my daughter, the poor things has had to endure her mother putting cute little things in her hair from day one, lots of frills and pinks not to mention dolls. Boy! has it been fun ...i just love having a girl. Don't get me wrong, my boys have had to endure some pretty scary things from their mom too!....matching clothes, little winnie the pooh ties...they look at their pictures today and wonder what i was thinking....oh well!...i just love them all so much. (though i do let the boys decide what they wear today)

About myself

Here is a little bit of info on me.

I was married at the age of 20 to my first boyfriend. Two year later we had our first son and then two years after that we had our second son. Needless to say the marriage was not good. Lots of verbal abuse and some physical too. Like many women before me i thought i could change him (NOT)....the day came when i just couldn't take it anymore and the police was clled at 4am the the morning. There is nothing more scary than having 4 polive cars in front of your house in the middle of the night. That was the end of a 13 year relationship.

I then did allot of soul searching and figuresout what i really wanted in a relationship. Sure, first husband was cute and boy could he dance....but so what?...what good did that do me?...i then met Daniel. He is the total opposite of my ex. WE fell in love, and everything else fell into place. We are now the proud parents of a three year old little angel named Emma. Had you asked me a few years ago were i would be....i couldn't even of imagined being this happy and content. Sure, we've had our up's and down's..his. ex....loss of jobs...moving....but the happiness he brings me is more than enough to compensate any rough patches in life. I'm so happy that i have found my place in life...and that i have been able to rebuild a life for myself and my children.

New to blog land

hello everyone....I'm so excited to be here...i've been thinking about posting for so long but never had the courage to do it. I guess i was more afraid that i wouldn't have anything interesting to say....but here goes!!!!...